The One Action That Will Tell You If You Are Out Of Alignment
Posted by Jenny | Filed under the law of attraction
The title of this post may be deceiving for there are many actions that can tell you that you are out of alignment. Being out of alignment causes those negative feelings that you do not want or need in your life experience.
At times many get confused about why they are attracting negative things into their life. Although, there are many reasons why this happens, the one that I will stress is gossip. Having gossip in your life is a very strong indicator that you are heading towards negative feelings and are out of alignment with what you truly want.
Many people gossip for many different reasons but there is a main reason and that is to be important or to be a part of something. People by nature have a strong need have self-importance. To be a part of something makes people feel a strong sense of self-worth. Unfortunately, gossip is an easy way to establish that self-worth in the wrong direction.
Gossip creates a strong stream of negative attention to you and others. Gossip trains your mind to judge others on whether their behaviors are right or wrong. Finally, gossip creates a strong negative flow of energy coming at you in all directions. It comes from you, from the people you are talking about, and from the people you are talking with. It is an unending whirlwind of misalignment.
Ending the tendency to gossip is a very quick way to return towards a positive direction. There are quick and simple ways to veer away from gossip even if you are already in it.
One of the best ways to stop gossip in its tracks is to simply change the subject to a positive topic when you are speaking with others. This may not always work however because whomever you are speaking with may be enjoying the gossip and needs the false self-worth.
If it happens that a positive subject change is not adequate, then leaving the conversation may be the only answer. People may not accept that at first but the more times you leave a gossip situation, the more it will occur to them that you are not the one to speak with.
Gossip can be almost like an addiction, so if you find yourself in it there are some personal feelings you should notice. The questions you should ask yourself are those such as: Am I deriving pleasure or a rush out of this gossip? Do I get more attention when I gossip? Am I more liked when I gossip?
If you can answer yes to any of the questions, you are on a negative path to false self-worth. Your best bet is to stop it now so you can regain positive alignment with the joy to truly want in your life experience.
Tags: actions and alignment, disalignment, gossip and the law of attraction, negative actions that promote disalignment
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