Abraham-Hicks: This will make you laugh!
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MAKING LOVE OUR REACTION
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by Nick Ralls
I make my reaction to people and experiences from the loving place in me that is also in you…I become aware of how I am reacting to the outside world. When I take decisions and make choices, I ask myself: What would love do now?
JUST how do we react to people and situations that crop up in our life?
So much of human reaction is based on counter attack, fear and misunderstanding.
So often we bite back, fight back or retreat and resent.
But when we decide to make love our response whatever is thrown at us and whoever does the throwing we are able to stay in love.
If we believe in God let us consider how God would react to whatever we might hurl at the universe.
Would not the divine see the fear and frailty of those who lash out… would the divine not have compassion… would the divine not be able to forgive while not condoning… would the divine not understand just how low people can behave when they are in a place that is not aligned to the loving essence that is deep within their heart.
And so we might need to shape our own reaction to people and life’s events from a loving prospective.
When we learn and acknowledge our divinity we can come from that place of love that is really and truly us.
And we can move away from that place that seems to have separated itself from unity, harmony and joy.
Likewise, we can help others to move back to love rather than push them further into the abyss.
When we show loving understanding, attempt healing and teach others love then they can take steps to fulfill their divine potential rather than home in on the label that takes them away from love.
When we react in an unloving way, one based on revenge, one based on retaliation and one based on ego then we also drag ourselves to that negative energy level.
But when we make the conscious decision to make our reaction a loving one, we can remain elevated and at one with all there is while accepting that someone who is drowning does not have to drag us down into the watery depths with them.
So with every decision we take and every choice we make, let us consider: What would love do now?
Indeed, what would love do?
And if our reaction in words and actions to others comes from that place of love that we all share then we experience the bliss of being divine.
Because the divine resides in heaven.
The part of us that attempts separation from the divine steps out of heaven into the fear based zones of human daily life.
So when someone speaks to us in an unloving way, let us come back at them with love.
Let us accept that the words spoken or written are not about us… but all about the person delivering them.
So when someone acts in an unloving way let us have compassion for their plight… for the hurt they are exacting on themselves as they also do it to others.
So if unloving experiences come along, let us provide loving reactions. Because loving reactions heal both ourselves, others and the world at large.
We are at choice always.
Do we want to react in a way that take us out of love?
Or do we want to always make love our reaction?
Love can solve all problems
Love can heal all wounds.
Love can repair relationships.
Let us speak love, do love and become love>
So dear and beautiful friend.. do open your heart and share what is going on for you on this subject or any subject
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When You Feel Nothing
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There are times in our lives that we can become indifferent, almost numb. This numbness is not a good thing, and according to many sources is worse then negative emotion. From psychology to the law of attraction negative emotion seems to be a much preferred affect then indifference.
Indifference, the absence of emotion, is easy to fall into. You’ve had too much, you feel like there is not a bright light at the end of the tunnel, there is no hope. I can relate to such feelings and know that it is very difficult to get yourself out of such a rut.
Nothing seems to interest you, you have lost all enjoyment in things you like to do. You don’t want to sit, stand, sleep, not sleep, eat, not eat, nothing means anything. As you can tell from the description I have been through it and know that it takes much work to get out of it.
After saying the word “work” there is a catch. At times enjoying the indifference for a brief period of time can be beneficial. However, one must not stay in that non-feeling mode for to long. Then the work begins.
It is hard to say what works for each individual person to break the cycle of indifference. The one common factor that must be done, is finding variety. Finding variety can some from very little things such as a change in a meal to a game that you have not played in years. Spice it up with something new.
During periods of indifference this can be a very difficult task, so changing what you’re doing often can greatly help. Watch T.V. for 20 minutes, then go for a walk, then read a book, then go shopping. Doing these multiple tasks in a small amount of time will help to shake the looming indifference that is interfering with your life.
I try not to be a big advocate of naps, although I love to take them. However, many people suffering from indifference can have a whole new outlook after a power nap. Power nap meaning no more then 45 minutes, I know the wonder of the power nap has made a great difference in my life.
Bottom-line, if you are suffering from indifference, enjoy briefly, start many tasks in short intervals, and never underestimate the power of refreshing yourself with a power nap.
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A New Look and Mission for Desire and Belief
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If you have not noticed, my posts have been less and less. There are many factors causing this, however one of the main one is that I have not been letting my entire personality out. Trying to help others through personal development, which is what this blog is all about, and leaving out personality is ridiculous. Even the word personal development has personal in it.
My new intentions of this blog, is to not only offer new ideas and concepts that I learn but to also include my own personal accomplishments and struggles. By doing this I hope to achieve a greater community of others who have similar interest, struggles and accomplishments.
As far as a new look goes I may revamp the site a bit, but I am hoping that the new look will come from my new way of expression and the many other great personal development bloggers out there.
The Belief of Depression Can Stand In The Way Of Your Desires
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One common illness that plagues millions is depression. I have read numerous times how people can “get over” depression by changing their thoughts or beliefs. While some of this may be true, it may not be entirely true.
Many believe that depression is only caused by negative thoughts or thinking patterns. Many also believe that it is not an illness nor does it exist. It is possible that this is true, but many who are able to change their thoughts still suffer.
It has also been said that many suffer from depression or any illness due to stress. Stress is the cause of many illnesses and their recoveries. While this also may be true, once again what about those who suffer from depression after eliminating stress and doing their best to change there thoughts.
There is no clear cut answer to this, if there was then no one would have an ounce of depression at any time. Does depression come first leading to negative thoughts or vice versa? Once again, this is not easily answered, especially by those who do not suffer from depression. There is one clear cut truth dealing with depression and that is it is a roadblock for peoples’ desire.
When the black cloud of depression is hanging over an individual’s head it is hard to even have a clear thought, let alone try to manifest their desires. So what does one do when depression is so bad that they cannot focus on reaching their full potential or changing their mindset?
Well this is not a medical opinion, for I am not in anyway qualified to make any such statement. My first gut reaction is that if the depression is bad enough an individual should seek help. If that step has already been taken then the following may help you:
- Make a list of your desires in those moments where you feel mild relief of your depression.
- Make a list of goals, but make them flexible
- Establish your core belief system, for example is it God, Universal Laws, etc. Then begin to study that way of thinking and put it into practice
- Make a list of what you did accomplish throughout the day
Just implementing this short list may lift depression a bit to help someone solidify their desires. With solid desires locked in place, even when depression hits, these desires will not be forgotten.
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Is Their A God Up There?
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There once was a young couple who lived in a beautiful town. They had the best of everything. Their love was strong and real. When their first child was born she was the most beautiful child they had ever seen.The couple believed their life to be perfect.
One day when their Daughter was about seven years old the Couple was in a car crash.Checking his wife right away the husband was relived to see she was ok. They both had received only a few scratches.They turned to check on their young daughter and as soon as they saw her both of them burst into tears.The wife started screaming NO GOD ! PLEASE GOD NO ! Their pain was felt by anyone and everyone who happened to be around them that day. The Beautiful young child had passed on and left this world .
During the funeral the deceased child’s mother kept asking why ? Why my child? oh dear Lord why? People paying there respects to this wonderful couples most beautiful child tried to console her. They told her things like “It is the Lords will” and “She is in Heaven now” These things did not help the child’s Mother and she cursed God Saying to the People “There is no God” for if there was such a God how could he allow something so terrible to happen? Surely he would have saved my child and she would still be here with us!!
Years passed by as they always do and the pain this Couple felt started to ease. They had more children over the years, all very beautiful None quite as beautiful as their first one.Their life went back to being as close to perfect as can be.But Every time the women heard something bad had happened in the world it reinforced her belief that there was no God and no Heaven up above,For surely no God would allow such terrible things to happen in this world !!!
One day as the Woman was walking to the store she heard these screams “NO LORD PLEASE LORD NO” The tone of the screams took her back to the death of her child and she ran toward the sound of them. She saw the woman who was screaming and behind her she could see a building on fire, My Child is in there Screamed the woman! Pointing to the building engulfed in flames. Knowing the pain this woman would go threw and not wishing it on anyone she raced into the building. Flames shot at her and she could feel them burning her but the pain was some where else and did not hurt her .As the flames got larger and the heat got much hotter the woman thought this is what hell must be like! Then she thought but there is no hell for if there is No God and No Heaven then there can’t be a Hell can there? These thoughts passed threw the woman’s mind as she felt herself begin to grow tired.
As She felt herself about to pass out the Women saw a child in the distance and with new found strength she started walking towards the child. As she got closer she could see it was the most beautiful young girl she had ever seen . When she reached the child the child spoke hello mother it is I your Daughter the one killed in that car accident those many years ago. No the Woman said you are gone your Dead. Dead yes I may be Mother but gone no I have never left you .I have always been in your heart and you in mine. But I am with the Father now in the most Wonderful Kingdom imaginable. With who? asked the Woman , The Father God answered the child the one you denounced upon my death. No said the woman there can’t be a GOD or a heaven For surely no God would allow the Terrible things to Happen that happen upon this earth. Terrible things are done by terrible people answered the child and they will answer for their sins in the afterlife have no fear of that my Mother, The Lord will see that justice is done.
But what of you asked the Mother you where not taken from me by a terrible person it was an accident why did the Lord take you from me. The Child smiled at her Mother and spoke Mother what you see as the most terrible thing ever is not. For I am in the Kingdom of the Lord and there is no greater reward then that ! My life on Earth was short Mother, I agree with you on that but Mother let me let you in on a little secret “All life on Earth is short” It is just a blink of the eye to the Father. Miss me Mother for I know you always will, But have faith in the Father for if you believe in him and follow his words you will be with me again one day and then you will feel no pain or sorrow ever again. The Mother reached down picked up her child closing her eyes and hugging the child to her bosom, She heard a voice that was not her Daughters say “I will always Love you my Child”
The woman opened her eyes and she saw lights and heard sirens and the voices of many people. Not sure what was going on she looked down at her child only to see that she was not holding her child but a small young boy. The Woman who she had seen screaming was grabbing for this child saying Thank you oh thank you Lord for sending this Woman to rescue my Child ,In my heart Lord I always knew you would save him, for surely you would never allow something so terrible to happen !!!!
By L.J. James
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Reinventing Yourself
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Reinventing Yourself
Have you all ever wondered what is real and what is not? There is a time in everyone’s life when they begin to question everything in existence, even themselves. When people come to that point, it usually signifies that it is time to start again. People change constantly throughout the course of their lives. You all will probably never meet somebody who has stayed the same from the time they were a teenager till the time they were a fully grown adult with their own established values, beliefs, and morals.
It is normal to go through a period of questioning and change. For many, the process of reinventing themselves does not occur until they are in their late 30s. Some reinvent themselves much sooner than that. In almost all cases, something happens in a person’s life that causes them to open their eyes and personal appearance at things differently. It doesn’t necessarily have to be something bad. It could be the birth of a child or an inheritance.
If you all have ever attended a high school reunion, you all most likely didn’t recognize a good bit of people. When people are teenagers and young adults, they are easily influenced by their circumstances and peers. They will often dress the same as everyone else and sort of follow the pack. When you all see someone years later, they may personal appearance different, speak differently, and not dress the same as before.
When a person reinvents themselves, it is literally like they are a new and improved individual. One of the things that someone can do to reinvent themselves is to look at their life. Ask yourself if this is where you want to be. Look at the people in your life as well. Your job also has a big impact on who you are.
Some people have said, if you all want to change your circumstances and life, you all must also change your people, places, and things. Meaning that it is easier to make a few changes in life if you all want to reinvent yourself. Decide what it is about you all that you all like and do not like. Write down these things down on a piece of paper.
Think about the ways in which you wish your life was better. Take a look at all of your bad habits, and make it a priority to break them now. Write down one spiritual goal, one physical goal, one financial goal, and one mental goal. If you can think of any more goals, write them down also, but beware not to write down too many because you do not want to become overwhelmed. Once you have composed a list, think about the things you can do in order to reach those goals. Also write down any other obstacles in your way.
Fool-proof your plan. If there are any obstacles, think and imagine of ways that you all can overcome them. Is there anything else that could get in the way of reaching your goals? If so, then do something about it now. You all should also keep a daily journal of your progress. Write down down something you all accomplished every single day that helped you all get closer to reinventing yourself. For example, if part of your overall plan is to lose weight, write down down that you all walked a mile. If it is to make better money, then write down down your efforts of creating a new and improved resume.
Most of all, you all must stay positive. Anyone who has ever reinvented themselves never came out with a negative attitude. Believe in yourself and visualize that everything you all want is already yours. The more you all believe it has already happened, the sooner it will happen. Take time out each day to meditate upon what it is you all want. Really sit down and believe all of it will come to pass. Think and imagine of yourself as a new and improved individual. If you all do this, it will all come naturally and easily.
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Winning and Losing — What Does That Mean?
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Life has been said to be a game of chance and so it is-to a certain extent. We cannot help many of the things that happen to us. What we can control is our response to it; thus gaining the power to change the very course of our lives.
Do you stop and wonder why certain individuals regularly make fast money while others struggle with their lot in life? You have two groups of people: the winners and the losers. What makes the winner a winner and what is the secret that keeps them there?
The secret to a winner’s distinct quality of life is embracing the right attitude in everything that they do. The thoughts and emotions you have that lead to subsequent actions make up the attitude you presently have. If you think positive, the law of attraction will make sure you get exactly what you wish for. For instance you want to have fast money and a six figure income-believe accordingly and you will become rich soon enough.
How can this simple truth change your life? The moment you determine in yourself what you want, your thoughts will arouse feelings inside of you which will subconsciously have you act in aid of what you think and feel your life should be.
Remember this, the principle of the law of attraction has been at work since the universe began and it does not distinguish between ages, races and genders. That means if one was born in poverty, he can get out of it anytime. Anybody can become rich by reprogramming your mind and having a positive attitude.
For example, we have two people working in the same company with the same job. One views his occupation as a thing he must do to survive therefore he will work only to that end. The other believes he can earn a lot and enjoy a quality of life regardless the situations he finds himself in so he takes on a positive energy at work. Which of these two do you think will have a six figure income?
However way it may seem, the universe has a vast resource of wealth available to whoever wants it. It will respond to ‘vibrations’ transmitted in the form of a person’s thoughts and emotions. If you knew how powerful your attitude was, it will astound you what you can actually accomplish and create-it will change your life.
Being a winner is not a chance given to a lucky few, it is a decision you make every day until it is manifested in your reality. To have wealth and success is in your hands-you are a winner when you say you are.
Want to find out more about buiding wealth in six minutes a day, then visit Bob Proctor’s site, Six Minutes to Success.
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The Money And Wealth Mindset
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It is a common belief that the world is divided into two groups of people-the ones that have, and the ones that have not. Here’s the important question, where do you think you are in? Do you believe that you are one of those have-not’s and there is no way out of it? What a sad state to be in; fortunately, you don’t have to stay there. You can have an absolutely amazing quality of life-the universe is just waiting to get it to you.
Do you want to know the secret to get wealth? First things first, what does money mean to you? Note that it is not the general definition we ask but what the personal meaning it is to you. Your perception on the piece of paper will determine your financial success. Money is more than currency-it is an idea.
So what do you think about prosperity? People who are uncomfortable with this concept tend to live in need and lack of resources. If you think you are not this person carefully check yourself. Are you allowing your present situation dictate the perception you have on your financial status? Are you concentrating more on what you do not have today instead of what you can have tomorrow?
How regrettable that we have excellent learning institutions in place that teach on almost all important matters yet still have so much need in educating people how to build wealth effectively. Three percent of the population knows the secret to the infallible wealth acquisition and it is this: you need to think rich before you get rich.
To build wealth you must first believe, indeed, live the truth of prosperity in your mind first. Have a prosperity consciousness that will make every situation an opportunity for you to create abundance. Remember, being broke is an event; it is not who you are. You need to live this, see this and breathe this every day until it becomes it penetrates into your physical reality.
Alright, you want this-now what can you do about it? Grade yourself on the level of your current prosperity today. Write down your desires and goals and be specific about it. Begin speaking out a prosperity motivation quote every day. What you are doing is training your subconscious mind to act in assistance to bringing the motivation quote into fruition.
Understand that money needs to be more than what you can buy for yourself-it must be seen in the perspective on how to improve the quality of life in other people. Do not be dishonest and manipulative in your money-making endeavors-you will not be happy; hence true wealth will constantly elude you.
Begin your journey to a most satisfying life today. Adopt a wealthy mindset and create the world you want to live in. To be rich is easier than you would think-all you need is to make the decision to be one today.
Looking to find the best information on wealth building in six minutes a day, then visit Bob Proctor’s “Six Minutes to Success” site.
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Use Mind Over Matter To Change Your Life
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Many people doubt the validity of claims that you can change your own circumstances easily. In fact, most people believe that your current lot in life is the one you are stuck with. Understanding what ‘mind over matter’ is all about will change your outlook on life.
The truth about life in general is that everything is mind over matter. Everyone has the capability of further developing their mind power; they just have to know how to do it.
One of the ways you can begin to develop using mind over matter is to practice turning your negative thoughts into positive affirmations. Spend some time thinking about what it means to control every aspect of your life with your thoughts. You could bring about a better job, more money, happier relationships, a healthier body and a happier disposition easily when you know how.
Now think about the things in your life you are happy for. You might be proud of your achievements, pleased with your home, happy with your relationship. Each of these circumstances are also a direct result of your mind’s power. After all, you made the choices that resulted in these things being in your life.
If you could master the mind over matter powers that could bring you more of the good things and less of the negative things, would you be interested?
Take some time to listen to what you say to yourself in the privacy of your own thoughts. If you’re thinking ‘I hate my job, I can’t afford nice things, I’ll never lose weight’, then these negative thoughts will influence your actions. You will unconsciously make choices that will make these thoughts a reality in your life.
This is because your subconscious mind has already been programmed to make sure you hate your job and that you won’t be able to afford nice things or to make sure you continue to struggle to lose weight. These negative beliefs can highly impact all areas of your life.
Affirmations are an excellent way to begin the re-programming process. Take a moment to think about your current situation. What thought processes led you to make the choices you did? Did you accidentally sign the papers for so much debt? Did you get into your relationship by accident? Did you accept your current job by accident? Each of these choices was a result of your mind being programmed to believe that was what you needed at that time in your life.
The reason why is because although they may not realize it, they have come to believe those terrible things about themselves, not consciously, but subconsciously. All of these negative beliefs eventually lead to a life full of pain, sorrow, and disbelief.
If you want a more successful job then spend time to repeat affirmations to yourself daily. Tell yourself you deserve a higher paying, happier job. If you want a happier relationship, tell yourself often that you deserve a happier relationship. No matter what you want your life to look like, you can change the outcomes by programming your sub-conscious mind to look for the results you want.
The mind can do amazing things. You have most likely heard in various places that humans only use ten percent of their brain power – and guess what? That is a documented fact! Here we are with the remaining 90%, just allowing it to go to waste as time passes us by, when we could all be using it to empower our lives and ourselves!
Believing in yourself has never been easier, and neither has living a life full of abundance and joy. It’s mind over matter!
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