By Nick Ralls
I see love everywhere… I know that there is nowhere where love is not…and I know that I need to keep my heart open even when it can be tempting to close it. Each time the door to my heart has been closed, love has been knocking strongly so that it opens again.
LOVE is everywhere.
And so love does not pass us by.
Therefore, love is not missing from this life and not that life.
And love always enters our life… and love also always comes back to us when we feel it has left or is missing.
In other words, it is absolute truth and not rocket science to understand that love is always present in our life.
It is just that sometimes we are so fixated with feelings of isolation, disconnection, hurt, sorrow and fear that we do not grasp the love that is in our reach.
It is a sort of blindness.
We just do not see what so often is right under our nose.
Love is the glue that holds together the universe… it is the meaning of life and the reason why planet earth came into existence in the first place.
All other reasons, scientific, rational or irrational, are illusions created by the ego mind which drags us all screaming and kicking into a veritable hell of disunity and loneliness.
So is there anywhere where love is not?
Of course not.
It is only deluded and fearful thinking that ever tries to deny that love is not pivotal to our experience and our way of living.
Whenever our mind, through hurt, resentment, anger or a feeling of being rejected or misunderstood, breaks from the connection with all that is, was and ever will be, love is still not far away.
It will become our saviour.
It will become our healer
It will become our reason to carry on down our own yellow brick road which will return us to that place from where we came… and which we might know clearly, perhaps for the first time.
When we close our hearts, we might feel that we are shutting love out for fear of being hurt again or hurt again and again but love is struggling and pushing to re enter our lives.
You never keep love down.
You can never really push love away.
It is like a boomerang.. each time you throw it it will be wanting and willing to return to your hands.
And it does.
So whenever we feel that we are not loved, unpopular, will never find a soul mate, will always be alone, will always be at the end of meaningless or unfulfilled relationships we need to work out what are the patterns of our past that are causing us this mental obstruction.
Of course, we are not excluded from love.
Of course, love will not escape us when it does not escape others.
And of course we all deserve love and if we think we are not good enough for love then this is again a product of our bad conditioning and the sort of beliefs we still carry around us.
Each of us has our own love story.
Sometimes, we are just not in it.
We need to start seeing love everywhere… we can see it in ourselves… we can see it in others through their acts of kindness and compassion… we can see it in nature.. we can see it in beauty all around us… we can see it in smiles.. we can see it in our conversations… in our connections.. and in those around us who are just crying out for us to make contact or make communication in their lives.
Sometimes we are just so transfixed on the door that has closed… the heart that has been shut off or hearts even… that we do not see those who are reaching out to us, those who want us so much and those who are opening their doors and inviting us in.
We cannot open another’s heart… either to the world or to ourselves.
But we can open our own heart and let in loving people, loving experiences and take loving choices.
What happens when we knock on the door of love?
Yes, love answers us! It always does.
So dear and beautiful friend… do open your heart and share what is going on for you on this subject or any subject
